Wednesday 15 April 2015

Living with parents after wedding

Nowadays many young marrieges can't afford living on their own so the only solution is to move to their parents. As all situations like this, it has many advantages as well as disadvanteges.

One of the advantages of living with parents is that you don't have to pay bills and rent. It results in the fact that you can put by more money which you can allocate for buying a flat of your own. 

In addition, you always have someone who will help you. You can ask for help in taking care for your children. Despite having small children, you can have your ''own'' life. When you want to go out, parents can stay with their grandchildren. 

But on the other hand, you don't have any privacy. Mothers like imposing their own principles on their children and their spouses. You can't do anything which parents wouldn't feel comfortable and it results in the fact that this situation would hamper your relationship.

Also, when you live with parents you can't make up decissions without asking them. You are one big family and you have to pay attention to what they want and would they think. In-laws are harsh for their children-in-law and they grant them on quater, which brings many misunderstandings.

Summing up, while living with parents seems to be a perfect solution for those who can put up with others opinions, it probably is not a good way of living for those who don't care about other peolpe feelings.

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